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Know What You Want & No What You Don't Want

Updated: Feb 21

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It is important to know what you want and "no" what you don't want.

Before you commit to yet another responsibility, task, or project, know what you want and ask yourself:

  • Does this support my current priority (my ONE Thing)?

  • Does this support my goals?

  • Do I want to do it?

  • Do I have time to do it in addition to the other things I've committed to?

  • Do I want to let go of something else to make room for this?

If the answers aren't "YES", then say "no" to it.

Here are some ways to say "no":

  • That sounds very interesting, but I'm not taking on anything more at the moment.

  • If you can take over XYZ, then I could...

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  • Sorry, my schedule is full at the moment.

  • Thanks for thinking of me, but I can't take it on this year, maybe next year.

  • Let me check my schedule and get back to you.

  • Send me an email reminder and I'll check my schedule.

  • Sorry, I have something else planned.

  • Sorry, I can't.

  • At the moment, I can't take on more commitments.

  • No, but thank you for thinking of me.

  • No thanks.

  • No.

Nice people say no. Important people say no. You are both nice & important. Say "yes" to you and "no" to more things to do.

Routinely evaluate your commitments. Last year, it may have been a YES but things may have changed; you're responsibilities may have changed; your interests may have changed; and this year you may want to say "no" to it.

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So... what will you say YES to? and what will you say NO to?


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